I recently thought about how easy it is to find beauty everywhere when everything is going my way. When I am meeting my goals, experiencing success in my business, seeing my family growing and knowing they are healthy, I tend to be content and happy. And, when I am truly happy, I can easily find the beauty in little things.
On the flip side, I realize that when things aren’t going my way, I can easily slip into being negative. In this negative state of mind, I can withdraw into my own grey world of not enjoying the beauty in little things. I know that I am not alone in this. At one time or another, each of us can experience a life situation which will bring us down, if we let it. It could be a family member diagnosed with an illness, losing a job, the death of a loved one, a child struggling in school, or even a car breaking down.
So what can we do in those times when we struggle to see the beauty in even the little things? Here are a few suggestions to get you thinking about what you can implement to remain aware of the beauty:
- Have an attitude of gratitude. Take time at least once a week to write down at least five things that you are grateful for (it’s even better if you can do this every day). Consider such things as having a roof over your head, food to eat, loved ones around you, employment or other sources of income, your health, feeling the sun shining down, hearing a child laugh, having a favorite blanket to wrap up in, getting a new toothbrush or other self-care item, having the sense of sight or hearing, etc.
- Focus on joyful moments. Even when we are experiencing days of having to deal with a negative life event, such as a death in our family, we are able to find something that will bring a smile to our face, or joy to our heart (such as sharing stories about them that will make us smile). In all situations, consider what has cheered you up in the past, and reach out for it. Maybe it is a song, a movie, a place, or an activity.
- Do something physical. This can be exercise, a walk, painting, riding a bike, working in a garden, etc. If it is an activity that gets you moving, it is physical. Physical movement (especially exercise) releases a chemical in our brain called dopamine (aka happiness neurotransmitter).
- Get plenty of sleep. When we do not get enough sleep, it can cause our brain to become exhausted. This then leads to many negative issues, such as mood changes, which can lead to depression and more.
I encourage you to stop and take in the beauty of the small things. As you make an effort to do this, it will get easier and easier over time. Before you know it, you will be able to see the beauty in the most mundane tasks, or most difficult moments in your life.
I invite you to take five minutes of your time, turn the volume up, and watch this video to help you take in the little things. https://youtu.be/Qzfh0q0ybKk